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| Monday, 01 March 2010 | |
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Miracle
Ordinary Miracles
By Wayne Qian
“Every day is full of ordinary miracles. You don’t have to look far to find them,” said Lisa Cleypas at the end of her novel Sugar Daddy, which I finished reading at exactly 10 p.m. on August 22, 2007. Though I don’t like the novel on 10 CDs as a whole,[1] I do like that quotation. It has a great deal of truth in it.
Let me tell you two “ordinary miracles” that happened to me on that very day.
The first is related to the class that I taught that morning. It was the last but one day of the summer session, and my students were going to go online for registration for the fall semester. I hadn’t planned for the class in great detail. Before I went to the classroom, I photocopied “Getting Sick? That’s ‘S.O.S.’ from Your Cells,” an essay I had translated from Chinese into English several days earlier. “My students could read it,” I told myself, “when other students were registering.”
I was ready to do the photocopying when I found a sheet left in the copier by some other teacher. It turned out to be a song by Bette Midler, one of the most popular singers of the country today. The song was entitled “The Rose.” When I saw the song sheet, I thought to myself, “I might as well have this song photocopied too so that my students could read it for fun.” And so I made 20 copies of the song.
In class I explained a few words and expressions in the song to my students, and I told them what Prof. Helen Hayes, retired chair of anthropology department at Los Angeles City College, had said when I met her in her home last Sunday. “Reading poems helps the students to develop a feel for the language,” she said.
Unexpectedly, two Spanish-speaking students, Tatiana and Mariela, told me that we could listen to the song by going to the website of YouTube. I had read about YouTube a lot, knowing that it is one of the most popular websites for downloading music, but I had never visited it. So I invited one of them to help me go online. Immediately Tatiana went to the computer, found the website of YouTube at www.YouTube.com and typed in “The Rose by Bette Midler.”
Earlier, I had already had the big white screen rolled down in front of the class. And the overhead projector, which was linked with the computer, began to operate: we saw a beautiful Bette Midler swaying a bit and heard her singing “The Rose.” It was such a beautifully soft and pleasant voice that some students began to clap. I, too, felt excited about the fun the class was having. “I owe you a big debt of gratitude,” I said to Tatiana later. Some students wanted her to write down the website of YouTube, which she did.
The second miracle happened when I was driving home after class, my wife sitting next to me. She told me – for the second time – that she had planned not to tell the students the results of their exit test until Wednesday, but that some students urged her again and again to do that on Tuesday. She acquiesced in the end. “You have to ask to get what you want,” she said to me. “You will never get what you want if you don’t ask. That’s American culture.” She repeated the two words “American culture” for emphasis.
“Do you know where that ‘culture’ is from?” I asked my wife. She didn’t seem to know. “It’s from the Bible, the Book of Matthew, to be more exact,” I said. And I went on to tell her that I did exactly the same thing in my class that she had done in her class.
Andrea, a student form Mexico, wanted me to tell the class the test results the moment she stepped into the classroom, and she did it again when we were midway through the class. I relented and did some quick calculation [2] before I announced the scores.
Then I told the class about the acronym “ASK,” which stands for ask, seek, and knock, a basic teaching of the Bible. On the blackboard I wrote:
“Ask, and you’ll be given;
Seek, and you’ll find;
Knock, and the door will open for you.”[3]
Additionally, I told a true story out of my own experience. Back in 1985, when I was working in Zhejiang Provincial Foreign Affairs Office (ZJPFAO) as a department chief, I was invited by the US Information Agency (USIA) to visit the US for one month together with my superior Mr. Cai Shun (蔡舜), [4] the then deputy director of the ZJPFAO. During a visit to Houghton Mifflin in Boston, we had a chance to visit the CEO in his office, whose book shelves were filled with all kinds of books HM had published. When I took a quick look, I was attracted by a newly published American Heritage Dictionary for children. I would love to have it, but like most Chinese, I was not bold enough to make my desire known to my host explicitly. It was not until the end of the visit that I thought of what my wife called “American culture” – you will get what you want if only you ask for it [5]– and thereby I plucked up my courage to make the request. Sure enough, my host gladly made a gift of the dictionary to me.
The day’s second ordinary miracle, however, was that my wife, who usually doesn’t want to hear me talk about the Bible, heard me through when I explained the acronym “ASK.” This, indeed, was the first time in years when she had the patience to hear me through.
I know who made the two miracles happen to me. Thank God for all this.
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August 23-24, 2007
The Rose
Sung by Better Midler
Some say love, it is a river
That drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor
That leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger,
An endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower
And you its only seed.
It’s the heart afraid of breaking,
That never learns to dance.
It’s the dream afraid of waking,
That never takes the chance.
It’s the one who won’t be taken
Who cannot seem to give.
And the soul, afraid of dyin’
That never learns to live.
When the night has been too lonely
And the road has been too long
And you think that love is only
For the lucky and the strong.
Just remember in the winter,
Far beneath the bitter snows,
Lies the seed that with the sun’s love
In the spring becomes the rose.
[1] The teachers’ lounge in our school is a place where ESL instructors go online, make photocopies, and meet for a chat during the break. About two weeks ago, a young American woman teacher, who married a Chinese from Taiwan, asked us this question, “Which is the way many Americans believe they can get rich quickly, investment, real estate, or marrying rich?” I said marrying rich was only for the girls. A man teacher, Kirk by name, corrected me and said it could also be for a young man who married a rich old widow. The novel Sugar Daddy is all about how a small town girl gets rich real quick by marrying a rich man. That’s why I don’t like it. However, the scene of the novel is laid in Houston, where I lived for 9 months in 1998-99, and that’s part of the reason why I finished reading the book.
[2] In a standard text, the students answer the questions on the scantron paper. As there were 60 questions for the Level 5 Exit Test, their answers appeared on two pages. The reading of the scantron papers was done by machine, but I had to added up the two scores from two different pages.
[3] The translation is mine. I told my students that the sentence structure was a useful pattern. The first part is just a verb expressing a request or command (and so the subject You is not there), and the second part is a complete sentence expressing the result of taking the action. They are combined by “and.”
Here’s another translation done by New Living Translation:
“Keep on asking, and you will be given what you ask for.
Keep on looking, and you will find.
Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened.” (Matthew: 7: 7)
[4] As Mr. Cai majored in Spanish in college and spoke only a little English, USIA provided us with a young man serving as the interpreter. Let’s call him Jack. He had been a teacher of English at a medical school in Changsha, Hunan. While there, he fell in love with a girl whose father, a professor, didn’t want his daughter to marry a “foreign devil.” Jack told us about this, and we encouraged him by quoting the Chinese saying “Lovers are destined to be married (有情人终成眷属).” Some time after we returned to China, Cai and I received a letter from Jack, inviting us to go to the US to attend his wedding ceremony. The old professor relented after all!
[5] I must admit that I didn’t know the saying was from the Bible at that time. It was not until I settled down in Los Angeles and went to church that I came to know that through Bible study.
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